been had and was had
phr. been mistreated, cheated, or dealt with badly.Look at this shirt! I was had!I've been had by that lousy gyp joint.
black and blue
mod. bruised, physically or emotionally.I'm still black and blue from my divorce.What is that black and blue area on your leg?
chewed
mod. abused.After that argument at the office yesterday, I really felt chewed.After an interview like that, I am too chewed to even cry.