the comings and goings
The arrivals and departures of people at a particular location, and/or their movements and activities. If you want to know about the comings and goings at the pub, talk to Mickey—he's there every day.
comings and goings
Movements, activities, as in He's in and out of the office; I can't keep up with his comings and goings, or In her job on the school board, Mrs. Smith keeps track of all the comings and goings in town .
ˌcomings and ˈgoings
arrivals and departures; movement of people: There were a lot of comings and goings at our neighbour’s house all day.