vulgar slang An expression of frustration or anger about one or something one has said or done. The phrase indirectly alludes to telling one to shove something up their anus. I'm going to call this damned company and tell them what they can do with the stupid flyers they've been stuffing in our mail box! A: "How did you end up in jail?" B: "Well, the officer tried to give me a parking ticket, and I told him what he could do with it."