have the shoe on the other foot
To experience a role reversal with another person, especially when the swapped roles are the opposite of each other. I can see that you don't like being told what to do, but now you have the shoe on the other foot!
have the shoe on the other foot
Fig. to experience the opposite situation (from a previous situation). (See the proverb The shoe is on the other foot. I used to be a student, and now I'm the teacher. Now I have the shoe on the other foot.