offend (one) with (something)
To instill or instigate offense, anger, or displeasure in one by some words or actions. I think you may have offended our clients with your off-color remarks. Please don't offend my grandparents with any rude behavior, OK?
offend someone with something
to anger or affront someone with something. Don't offend us with your bad jokes. I offended Ralph with my constant niggling.