if you don't mind me saying (so)
Said before or after a comment that one thinks may make someone else feel upset, offended, or uncomfortable, especially a very direct criticism or compliment. That's a pretty naïve statement, senator, if you don't mind me saying so. If you don't mind me saying, you look extremely handsome tonight.
if you don't mind my saying (so)
Said before or after a comment that one thinks may make someone else feel upset, offended, or uncomfortable, especially a very direct criticism or compliment. That's a pretty naïve statement, senator, if you don't mind my saying so. If you don't mind my saying, you look extremely handsome tonight.