put (one's) nose out of joint
To upset one, usually through actions or words. Well, something put my mother's nose out of joint—what exactly did you say to her?
get one's nose out of joint and have one's nose out of joint; put one's nose out of joint
Fig. to resent that one has been slighted, neglected, or insulted. You get your nose out of joint too easily about stuff like that. Now, don't get your nose out of joint. She didn't mean it.